In particular, non-Japanese guys tend to disagree because they don’t think it’s easy to date Japanese girls. Overall, does it mean that it’s hard to date Japanese people regardless of your gender? If you are in a foreign country with a completely different culture, it is logical that you might have a hard time dating.
There was also one page with a drawing of his face. Why doesn’t she understand that I’m not interested?
The book ended with telling him that I was still willing to date him even though he turned me down with this obvious excuse of working in the same team. I want her to stop doing embarrassing things in front of people but I don’t know how. Hopefully it will stop as time goes by.’ She was giving emotional gifts he couldn’t reciprocate, and that put him under a lot of pressure and made him uneasy.
Then the real question is this: what is the difference between successful and unsuccessful people?
Fortunately, thanks to zoomingjapan, I have a good sample of comments on this.
She seems to be clueless in situations where her charisma doesn’t work as expected.
‘I fell in love with one Japanese boy in my research team.
Many people provided counter-examples in the comments.
My personal experience also tells me that dating in Japan is completely feasible and a lot of my friends seem to be doing OK with dating here.
A guy says that it’s very hard for him to have good relationships with Japanese women.
‘My biggest problem is that most girls my age (~25) are very childish’, he points out.
Every page had about 2 or 3 sentences in English and Japanese and a drawing.