But she's a very strong woman, so will be like, 'No, I don't want to do that.' And that's fine.
On this occasion though, our sex just felt very primal and selfish. And I told her it was probably so great because we hadn't seen each other in a while.
Dylan*, a 33-year-old policy advisor from London, has been using the extra-marital affairs site Ashley Madison to cheat on his wife since 2014.
We're both very independent anyway, but it was like we were like ships passing in the dark. I planned to see what it was all about and didn’t really intend to do anything. Jenny and I talk a lot and we’re each other’s best friends, blah blah blah.
But a few days later I found myself feeling more and more intrigued. I’m extremely happy with her in a lot of senses and I definitely love her.
In 2017, 70% of Ashley Madison's new UK members were male and aged 35 and under.
The most common reason they cited for joining the site was that the sex in their current relationship was "rare" or "non-existent".
Dylan tells "I had my first 'fling' about three years ago.
It was after one of those interesting work dos and we'd all had a little bit to drink.I've probably paid that three times a year for the last three years.It would be disingenuous to say it's not about attractiveness when looking for someone to have a fling with.But for me, it’s become much more about sexual freedom and liberty.I wouldn't be interested in meeting someone who just wanted to have straight sex in a hotel room. I’m not looking for somebody who I can potentially spend the rest of my life with, or even the weekend with.It’s about having a fun evening or afternoon and then leaving it a couple of weeks or a month before meeting up again.